Asking people “Kapan? (kamu akan menikah — red)” is as offensive as asking them “Kapan? (kamu akan masuk Harvard)” or “Kapan? (kamu akan punya usaha sendiri)”. Different people have different plans and targets, so it doesn’t make sense to compare one’s lifeline to another’s, or to the social conformity for that matter. It’s just as offensive as stating to your friend that your religion is much more superior to his, or that only your religion is correct.
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