My Dad decided to let my Mum work, become a house-husband, and in times be over-protective to me because he feels he didn’t have parental care during his childhood due to some reasons that I don’t want to explain. The point is, now I become too involved with my work, becoming a workaholic, working from 10 AM-12 PM, feeling anxious if I don’t follow that “schedule”, especially considering that I am an underperforming student who must catch up my colleagues’ achievements. What will become of my family, if I happen to marry someone? My parents suggested to have a non-ambitious woman to marry, so that she can take care of the children. But I— (I’m sorry to say this) I tend to look down upon a non-ambitious person, so it is quite unlikely for me to love such person. On the other hand, I don’t want to destroy my partner’s career dream, because I don’t want to see mine destroyed too. However, having two hectic parents may easily lead to a broken family.
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